After some thought, I have decided to take down the post on the copycat.  I spoke my mind, I received tons of comments that supported my views, but I still feel uneasy about it.  I dont want the negativity here on my space.  I think I acted more out of anger than anything.  This space here is my personal space, and Im choosing to wipe it clean of all of that negative feeling.  If I am really going to move on, then I need to let it go.  And I cant let it go with it staring me in the face everyday.  Maybe this is what the lesson of being the bigger person really means.  I cannot let this tear me apart anymore.  I already feel robbed of so many moments of happiness the past few weeks because of this, and it is because I personally allowed it to.  It really is up to me to make the change in my own heart.  I cant change the situation, only the way I react to it.  With a little help from my friends, I am learning this.  Thank you to everyone who has been by my side through this whole thing.  I am walking away and giving it to god.



  1. Good for you :) I love you sweet girl.
    You are such a beautiful person... in and out!
    and I think you did the right thing!


  2. I didn't see the post before with being out of town but I am proud of you. :)

  3. You are so right Laura... forgiveness brings harmony and peace.

  4. i've always been a lurker, never a commenter on your wonderful blog and when i read your copycat post i understood your anger but was also really uneasy about how the comments might come across to the girl doing it. this post makes me so happy to be part of the blogosphere! your positivity is inspiring, keep it up!

  5. I know how you feel, sometimes its best to be positive xo

  6. Peace is a beautiful thing! It allows you to be the beautiful inspiration that you are.

  7. It's your blog, and your choice.
    I think it was good though, that you chose to express your feelings about something that was important to you. Because it is a big deal, and no one deserves to be copied like that.
    But I actually think that the girl in question deserves to read what you said.
    But to take it off shows that you are the better person in this, and that's a great thing to see.


Thank you so much for your sweet comments!